Admittedly, the Internet has opened up a lot of options for single people. However, not only single people have benefitted from this easy and unique way to communicate with other people. Married, and otherwise attached, people also now have a way to discreetly meet likeminded people for fun and games without any strings attached. But if you’re single and looking for a real boyfriend that’s not already with someone else, you now have lots of ways to do that. One of them is through a reputable online dating site. There are ways to be successful in doing things this way that will save you time and energy.
First of all, when completing your profile, be very specific about the type of man and relationship that you’re looking for. In that way, guys looking for one night stands or a sex buddy will probably pass up your profile. Be honest about who you are and what you’re about. If you have any fetishes that are important to you, it’s probably a good idea to mention those, too. You won’t be wasting any time on guys that you have no future with.
It’s also good to decide what is NOT important to you. In that way, you can open up the door to guys that may not have all things in common with you, but you’ll find that there are enough good things that you both like that it makes it worth a try. If you’re still having fun with him after a couple of months, there’s no need to even consider the things that you may disagree on.
Post pictures of you not wearing make-up. Guys know that women typically only post the very best and most glamorous pictures of themselves, so it’s kind of hard to know what she really looks like first thing in the morning. If you take a picture of yourself when you’re not in make-up, you’ll still get responses. Most men want a REAL woman, anyway; not a mannequin. Then put up other pictures of yourself in different parts of your life. For instance, if you like biking, post a picture of yourself on your bike, wearing your biking gear. Post a picture of you on vacation in your favorite spot. If you like going out at night, put up a picture of you wearing full make-up and dressed to kill. It’s important to give a full scope of the person you are, and pictures are excellent ways of doing that.
Something else you can do is to immediately delete any responses that seem to completely and totally ignore what your specifications were. Now if you do get some responses from very cute and likeable guys, but they’re not looking for a long term relationship or they’re not into your particular fetish, you can simply send them a polite email back thanking them for their interest. You don’t have to be mean about this, but be firm that you’re looking for what your profile says.
These are ways that have worked out for quite a few women when they were actively seeking boyfriends. If you haven’t had any luck so far, try doing things this way and see what happens.
With this article i wish you good luck with your dating whether its online or offline. Finding someone special to share life with is really important!