Will My Ex Be Back

Will My Ex Be Back

söndag 17 maj 2015

Is He Moving Too Slowly For You?



Is it worth dating a man who’s moving too slowly? Why are some men so averse to commitment? Claire Casey answers a reader question…

Dear Claire,
I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months, but he seems to move really slowly. He told me that he noticed me 4 years back (we work at the same firm), and that when I started here he always looked out for me (not in a stalking way). He told me that he just had to take charge to say hi and officially meet me, and we have been together since then.
Just to give you an idea on him, he’s been with the same firm for 20 years. He is happy in his job, yes he did move up in the ranks and did make a name for himself. He told me he likes routine a lot and does not make hasty decisions.
I one time asked him why he holds back so much and he replied that he wants to make sure of what he wants…because he ‘s been hurt before. I also got hurt before, but I am not holding back…
Your program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever” started me thinking on do I want to commit to this guy, if he’s like this in our relationship now how will this be if he ever asks me to get married?
What I would like to know… am I wasting my time with this guy or is he just really slow?
Thanks, Marie

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Is He Moving Too Slowly For You?

Hi, Marie —
You’re dating a quiet, slower man, and they have their own advantages and disadvantages, and depending on what YOU want out of a relationship I think they can make pretty awesome partners.
Here’s why…
The big advantages:
A quiet, slow man is usually very stable, not just emotionally, but also (very frequently) financially. For some people, this is a huge benefit. In other words, you get to be the dynamic, whirlwind person and he provides the grounding for that. You won’t be competing with him for attention, either.
Also, a man with a slow, deliberate approach can be quite a pleasure in the bedroom :) He’ll take the time to get you where you want to go.
The potential problem:
The reason some women don’t like the slower-paced guys is because it just takes them forever to make a move! You might get frustrated at having to wait on him all the time. And if you’re hoping to commit within a short time-frame, you might have to pass this guy on by.
But not necessarily! Men secretly yearn for commitment and marriage and in Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, I teach you how to turn that yearning into a truly primal need.
Slow-paced guys are usually pretty happy for you to lead on making moves, for one thing. So be SURE to communicate openly and clearly with him on the important stuff. This means you have to know what you want, of course, so if you’re not clear, GET clear.
And when it comes to commitment, the key to working with a man like this is to let him know your timeframe. If you hope to get married within a year after starting to date someone, you need to be able to let him know this in a non-threatening way.
Best to you, Marie!
xoxxo
Claire

fredag 15 maj 2015

Moving Forward After Your Divorce

Moving Forward After Your Divorce
by Leeanne Kunnert

It is pretty obvious; divorce is not great for your marriage. With the obvious being stated it is important to know that women handle divorce harder than men. Don't get me wrong divorce is hard for both men and women however truth be told men move on faster. It is tough, but not impossible to overcome divorce. Believe it or not it is actually possible to discover happiness after divorce. If you are a woman who is newly divorced it is time to lose the past grief and unhappiness and move towards your future of excitement and happiness.

It is important to understand that you need to move on. I know this can be a bit intimidating, but it is essential that you start viewing yourself as an independent, strong women. Moving on does not mean committing to the next relationship that comes around. It means that you should start viewing yourself as a strong independent woman. It also signals that you alone are in control of your happiness. Don't jump into a relationship. Give yourself the opportunity to move through your divorce and into the happiness you desire.

Think about exactly what you want after your divorce and bring that to your future. Consider your thoughts on not only child custody, alimony and a possible change in location. Consider everything that affects your life after the divorce before you consider updating your relationship status.

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Working with your ex is probably the last thing you are considering as you are processing your divorce. However, if you want to be happy this is one way to create it for yourself. Maintain a relationship that allows you to be cordial with your ex. To remain on terms that are at least social allows you to maintain a relationship with your ex that creates an environment that is good for your children and their future. Move towards the future, stop fighting about the past and bringing up past divorce issues.

When it comes to being happy after divorce the most important focus should always be on your children. When it comes to the children you should always focus on keeping their life completely normal. Creating this environment allows you to take your mind off the painful past and to move forward towards a future that creates a life you desire for your children

When it comes to going through a divorce focusing on your children will allow you to see a happiness you forgot was possible. If it takes therapy or seeking advice from a divorce expert move forward with that plan. Do whatever is takes to create a happiness that you experience with your children.

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fredag 8 maj 2015

Success In Relationships

Success In Relationships
by Samantha Knowles

A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best things in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others. However, if the relationship isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back.

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Everyone's relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. But there are some things that good relationships have in common. Knowing the basic principles of healthy relationships helps keep them meaningful, fulfilling and exciting in both happy times and sad. What makes a healthy love relationship? Here are a few tips:

1. Staying involved with each other. Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance. When you need to talk about something important, the connection and understanding may no longer be there.

2. Getting through conflict. Some couples talk things out quietly, while others may raise their voices and passionately disagree. The key in a strong relationship, though, is not to be fearful of conflict. You need to be safe to express things that bother you without fear of retaliation, and be able to resolve conflict without humiliation, degradation or insisting on being right.

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3. Keeping outside relationships and interests alive. No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.

4. Communicating. Honest, direct communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, trust and bonds are strengthened. Nonverbal cues--body language like eye contact, leaning forward or away, or touching someone's arm--are critical to communication.

Are these things alive and well in your relationship? Take a good look at your partnership and evaluate what is working (and what isn't working). A key to making your relationship work, no matter what it looks like, is to be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want out of a relationship. If romance is important to you, and you are not getting that from your partner, you need to address that with your partner. Don't downplay your needs as it will only lead to resentment.

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