Dealing With Her Reaction When You Break Up

You know your girlfriend better than almost anyone else, so you may be able to predict how she will react. Some of the ways women react to being told the relationship is over is to cry, have hysterics, scream at you, throw things, and storm out. Unless you perceive that there is any chance of real violence, you just have to put up with whatever scene she causes. That's the price of breaking up.

You can't control her, but you can control your reaction to her. For instance, when she cries, you can start crying too. That will really throw her. It doesn't have to be a sloppy cry, but a tear or two might stop her in her tracks.

If she starts yelling, you can take it with stoic silence. If she wants to know why you are doing this, you can soothe her and lie.

If she doesn't say anything, don't fill up the silence with explanations. Let her finish her dinner in silence and let her leave.

Be prepared for her arguments about why you should remain a couple. She may promise anything if you will agree to stay together. But, by the time you have decided to break up, you should already know that there is nothing she or you can do to change the situation and you are both better off single.

Whatever you do, you should have a disentanglement strategy. Perhaps you can schedule an appointment for one hour after the break up meeting time. If this is an appointment that you just can't miss, you will have to walk out of there composed.

How to Tell Her

Now we get to the nitty-gritty. How should you tell your girlfriend that you are breaking up? Avoid psychobabble. She'll see right through it. Saying "it's not you, it's me" is meaningless because she is going to know that it really is her. You are not calling all women off. You're calling her off.

Be clear that you are breaking up with her and there is no room for discussion. This is a decision you have made and it requires no input or discussion on her part.

Be concise. You don't have to drag it out if you don't want to. She can cry on her girlfriends' shoulders. You are no longer her punching bag.

You may feel that you have to offer explanations, but you really don't. You are not doing her any favors by telling her that she is a nag or that you are tired of her manipulating you. It won't help her be a better girlfriend for another guy. She'll just use your words against you. And, you won't get anything out of it.

Perhaps the best line is "I don’t think we're a good fit anymore." Leave it at that and walk away if you're smart.
Ps. Whatever you say or do in the middle of a breakup it all come down to one thing. Everything we give out
we receive back; the good and the bad so before you are in the middle of a storm learn how to handle it or to avoid it by watching this!

Will My Ex Be Back:Reject Your Ex Back

How do you get your ex back? If you're reading this than this question has come to your mind. You have probably read other guides on how to get your ex back with mixed results and you've come here because nothing is working out quite the way you've envisioned it. This technique is very powerful which means it also needs to be used with great caution. Of all the tricks and techniques you have likely read about this is one with the most to win—and most to lose.

The Unobtainable Principle

Men want what they can't have. The entire basis for this technique is to play on that truth to your advantage. This principle is based in human nature which is why it works so well. We strive to improve our lives, to grow and become more than what we are, and of course, to have something we can't seem to obtain.

Reject Your Ex Back

How Does This Apply To Me?

That's a very good question I'm glad you asked. Think about your current situation. What happened there? Your ex has rejected you because you became too attached. Your ex knows you want him a lot more than he wants you. Was the break up a join decision? Why are you reading this article if this is not what you're going through?

Listen closely. What you need to do is reverse the situation on him. Your goal is to fool your ex into thinking that you don't need him anymore and that you have moved on. Why must you do this? This is what that action will do to your ex:

• Your ex will be curious if you've been dating another guy. They'll work to find out if this thought is true and who it is
• He will wonder why you have stopped talking to him. The lack of contact is going to drive him crazy
• Your ex boyfriend will be jealous that you are happy and that he isn't. He will feel a little bit of what you're feeling
• He'll wonder how you were able to drop it all and move on so quickly. He hasn't gotten over the relationship yet, how have you?
• Your ex will be burning up inside because the tables have now turned on him
• Now that he has something he doesn't have he will pursue you again

You are making him think about things he probably never considered. He will wonder all types of things about your life that he never considered because they were never a question before. You can turn the tables on him. His curiosity will get the better of him. There are too many things he doesn't know and will try to find out what is going on. You may even hear about his investigations into your changes to mutual friends which in turn will get to your ears.

You can see how powerful this technique can be. Rejecting him is always a risking decision but there are great rewards to be gained. There is always something you can do if you want your ex back. Use this technique carefully since it is a big risk.
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