Dont Loose Yourself In Relationships

This sunday i hope the article Dont Loose Yourself In Relationships will suit you and give you some good advice. Loving someone is in some way to loose yourself so its important to know the difference between loosing yourself in a good or in a bad way. If there are situations where you feel that you compromise with your own inner feelings and believings just to make your lover happy your on a dangerous road. If it continues and you suddenly say stop i dont agree on this he or she may start to question why your point of view suddenly shifted. So be true to your inner believings right from the beginning and your lover will know and understand you better. I wish you a wonderful Sunday with new insights.

To your succes in love and life

Dick Scott

A pitfall that many women fall into when they start dating a new guy is that they get so caught up in the excitement and newness of everything that you can easily lose yourself in the relationship. That’s the last thing that you want to do. This is true for many reasons, but one of the biggest ones is that losing yourself takes away from your inner core.

You first start noticing that all of your time is taken up with this new guy. There’s never any time for you to do something that you enjoy. It doesn’t matter, though, because you like spending all of that time with him. You’ve crossed a line and now everything is “our” this and “we” that without ever having an “I” or “me” moment again.

To keep you from losing yourself within this relationship there are some things that will keep you intact while also allowing you to love your new relationship. The first one of these things is to keep your old and current friendships going. While they might understand that you want to devote lots of time to nurturing this new relationship, if you keep blowing them off, they’ll eventually write you off. That’s not something you want to happen.

Don’t stop taking part in traditions. If you’ve been having a Girl’s Night Out once a week, there’s no need to stop participating in that because you’ve got a new love interest. Remember that your friends are very important. They’ve been there before this new guy and will be there after him.

Keep up with your hobbies. It doesn’t matter whether the new guy likes them or not. Your hobbies are for you. He probably likes things that you don’t actually get into. That’s something that makes you an individual and keeps you being who you are.

When your new love interest wants to spend some time with his friends, kiss him and send him off for an evening fun. Don’t whine about him wanting some “me” time. Instead, use that time to have some “me” time of your own. It will do both of you a lot of good. Besides, how can you miss each other if you’re never apart?

Something that’s really important is for you to meet his friends. They’ll tell you everything you need to know about this guy that he won’t tell you himself. You’ll find out all of his dirty little secrets and bad habits. The more time you spend around them the hotter they’ll think you are, which will keep you remembering just how desirable you are.

One last thing is to resist the urge to friend him on Facebook or follow him on Twitter. You don’t really want all of those hourly updates. Sometimes it’s better to not know certain things about your love. It can take away some of the mystique that your relationship has in the beginning. Yes, you’ll eventually have to find out all about his bathroom habits, but why do it before you absolutely have to? That goes both ways! But…..

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…