Dont Loose Yourself In Relationships

This sunday i hope the article Dont Loose Yourself In Relationships will suit you and give you some good advice. Loving someone is in some way to loose yourself so its important to know the difference between loosing yourself in a good or in a bad way. If there are situations where you feel that you compromise with your own inner feelings and believings just to make your lover happy your on a dangerous road. If it continues and you suddenly say stop i dont agree on this he or she may start to question why your point of view suddenly shifted. So be true to your inner believings right from the beginning and your lover will know and understand you better. I wish you a wonderful Sunday with new insights.

To your succes in love and life

Dick Scott

A pitfall that many women fall into when they start dating a new guy is that they get so caught up in the excitement and newness of everything that you can easily lose yourself in the relationship. That’s the last thing that you want to do. This is true for many reasons, but one of the biggest ones is that losing yourself takes away from your inner core.

You first start noticing that all of your time is taken up with this new guy. There’s never any time for you to do something that you enjoy. It doesn’t matter, though, because you like spending all of that time with him. You’ve crossed a line and now everything is “our” this and “we” that without ever having an “I” or “me” moment again.

To keep you from losing yourself within this relationship there are some things that will keep you intact while also allowing you to love your new relationship. The first one of these things is to keep your old and current friendships going. While they might understand that you want to devote lots of time to nurturing this new relationship, if you keep blowing them off, they’ll eventually write you off. That’s not something you want to happen.

Don’t stop taking part in traditions. If you’ve been having a Girl’s Night Out once a week, there’s no need to stop participating in that because you’ve got a new love interest. Remember that your friends are very important. They’ve been there before this new guy and will be there after him.

Keep up with your hobbies. It doesn’t matter whether the new guy likes them or not. Your hobbies are for you. He probably likes things that you don’t actually get into. That’s something that makes you an individual and keeps you being who you are.

When your new love interest wants to spend some time with his friends, kiss him and send him off for an evening fun. Don’t whine about him wanting some “me” time. Instead, use that time to have some “me” time of your own. It will do both of you a lot of good. Besides, how can you miss each other if you’re never apart?

Something that’s really important is for you to meet his friends. They’ll tell you everything you need to know about this guy that he won’t tell you himself. You’ll find out all of his dirty little secrets and bad habits. The more time you spend around them the hotter they’ll think you are, which will keep you remembering just how desirable you are.

One last thing is to resist the urge to friend him on Facebook or follow him on Twitter. You don’t really want all of those hourly updates. Sometimes it’s better to not know certain things about your love. It can take away some of the mystique that your relationship has in the beginning. Yes, you’ll eventually have to find out all about his bathroom habits, but why do it before you absolutely have to? That goes both ways! But…..

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

Write Your Own Great Love Story

Wouldn´t it be great to Write Your Own Great Love Story as todays article say. Think about it for a while; maybe it´s what we do all the time with our expectations and beliefs, sometimes good sometimes bad. I think we do get what we expect in life and if we have a dream which we believe in and dont give up on we will conceive it. So dont be afraid to paint your most beautiful picture in your mind of your relation and believe that you are worth it because you really are!

Have a lovely day!

Dick Scott

Unless you’ve been living your life under rock, you’ve heard about such couples as Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, Lancelot and Guinevere, and Mark Antony and Cleopatra. These are some of the greatest love stories of all time. The love and passion of these couples may have colored the expectations of women throughout the years when it comes to their own relationships. That’s a terrible mistake, though.

To begin with, look at the way these relationships ended. They all had very tragic consequences to be suffered and none of them got their happily ever after ending. That should be the number one reason that you don’t look to these couples as examples of how relationships should be. Yes, they were all very passionate love affairs, but the events got all twisted and resulted in death at the end, and not just the death of the relationships. These couples either died from grief or killed themselves. Now, seriously, just how happy do those relationships sound?

What you want to do with your relationship is to not compare it to those “great love stories.” You want to write your own love story and make it even greater than those you’ve read and heard about. Real love stories can be just as passionate and romantic as the great ones, but you can have an actual happy ending. All you have to do is live in the present and look forward to the future. Don’t dwell on things that may have gone wrong in the past or may have been what you thought was perfection. Nothing is perfect, not ever, and you need to also understand that if you’re going to have your own great love story.

Romance doesn’t have to be tragic to be meaningful. Go with your feelings but also inject a bit of common sense and realism into your relationship. Those great love stories also had an element of insanity in them, and you’ll see this if you read them carefully. You can have all the romance in your relationship that you can handle. All you need to do is be with the right person. The relationship you have can be a happy one, and that happiness doesn’t need to be fleeting, like in those great love stories. You can have happiness in your relationship all the time. Just make the right choices.

You’ll notice a common theme in these stories is that one or both lovers belonged to someone else, whether through marriage or betrothal. Everyone knows that getting involved with someone that’s already attached is a bad idea, and if you don’t believe that, then you’re a very naïve person. You’re also not very serious about having a true happy relationship. Most likely, you want to feel that passion of the forbidden even though it won’t end well and certainly not in your favor.

Think clearly about the choices you make when it comes to love and romance. In the end, you can simply write your own great love story and it will better than anything you’ve ever read or seen on the big screen.

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Will My Ex Be Back: Difference Of Opinion

Today we have a stormy day here in Sweden and it relates good to the article Difference Of Opinion which is something that can create a  typhoon in your relation. The important thing is to keep your voice down if you want your spouse to listen and listen to their answer also. I have read somewhere that the reason why we have two ears and one mouth is that we should listen twice as much as we talk. I think most of us do the opposite which make communication impossible. I got one tips: always try to see everything from your partners perspective  before you judge or make any conclusions. Thats what a relation is all about; to share our thoughts and get a greater picture of our purpose and mission in life. Always remember to share and to care!

My sincere blessings to all you lovely people!

Dick Scott

Author, Poet, Musician, Reiki Master, Digital entrepreneur

Being in a relationship can be one of the best things that could ever have happened to you. On the flip side of that, they can have some of the worst moments in your entire life. Everyone has had that relationship that they thought was going to last forever only to find out that the person they were with wasn’t thinking in the same terms as they were. But time moves on and you find someone else that feels like they could be with you forever and the cycle continues until you are old enough and mature enough to realize what it takes to make a relationship last.

One of the things that will help you in keeping your relationship strong is in the communication that you have between you and your partner. Most relationships fall apart because one, or both, of the participants aren’t communicating in an effective manner with the other one. You have to understand that if something is bothering you about your partner or relationship, in general, the only way it’s going to get fixed is if the two of you sit down and talk about it. That means actual talking, and not yelling defensively at each other.

You have to be able to listen and comprehend what your partner is saying back to you as well. When one person blames the other for everything that is going wrong in their life, then that person is going to become highly defensive in nature. No one likes to be attacked, even verbally, so that means you have to keep the conversation from getting to that point. You should also refrain from being overly detailed about what you think is wrong with the relationship. Going into great detail about something like that will only push your partner further away from you.

If you are the one that is being spoken to about your relationship, you need to be able to sit there and listen to what is being said rather than jumping the gun and immediately flying into defense mode. This is how most arguments get started in relationships and, once that has happened, there is a divide that grows between the two of you. Things will get heated and people will start saying things that they would never actually say even if they were thinking it in their heads.

Communication is a very important part of being in a relationship and it relies on both you and your partner to keep the lines open. Unless the two of you are deaf and mute, there is no reason why you can’t speak freely regarding how you feel about things. Having a difference of opinion is what being an individual is all about, but sharing that difference of opinion in a way that doesn’t upset the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with can be difficult at times. Just remember that you have to give them the same respect when they have a difference of opinion with you as well. If you have differences withing your communication and need something special i suggest

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Getting A Guy To Kiss You

Getting A Guy To Kiss You is easier then you think if you just give a little hint in the right direction. We love to express our love by kissing each other but often hesitate to take that first step. If we are to fast we may scare those who need and want some more time. Dont forget that a hug also is a good way to show our love. I am sure you will feel when its the right time to kiss each other because its a strong and a great feeling thats often shared by both of you emanating from your soul community.

So i send love and kisses to you; )

Dick Scott

Author, Poet, Musician, Reiki Master, Digital entrepreneur

One of the most exciting events is that first kiss with a new guy that you really like. You would think that it would be one of the easiest things that would ever happen to you but, believe it or not, sometimes it’s a bit difficult to get that kiss you want. There are ways to make it happen, though, even if you’ve started to give up.

Remember that many guys are painfully shy and don’t want to risk rejection. Because of this, they won’t make the effort to kiss you even though they really do want to. However, you can do some things that will let your shy guy know that you want him to kiss you more than anything else in your life at that moment.

One of these things is continual light touching throughout your conversation. Don’t grab him or anything like that. Just lightly touch his arm, or his knee, if you’re sitting down. His hands are another encouraging place to touch him. What you’re doing is creating a cozy and friendly environment that will help him to understand that it’s perfectly fine if he kisses you.
Another thing that works often is to lean in and smile while looking directly into his eyes during a conversation. Now, don’t make it obvious what you’re doing, but let him understand that you do find him attractive and are drawn to him. He should get the message if your smile is sexy enough.

You may just have to drop some pretty strong hints with some guys. What sort of hints you use and how you communicate them will be up to you. Only you know the type of guy you’re with and what will work rather than scare him off. Just do what feels right.

Try working it into a conversation. For instance, ask him what sort of things he likes about you. That should lead him to asking you what things about him you find attractive. When he does this, it’s your cue to work in something about what a sexy and kissable mouth he has. He might just get what you’re saying.
There’s also the “Oh, I’m kind of chilly.” Move in closer to him and, hopefully, he’s considerate enough to offer you his jacket, if he’s wearing one. That gives you the perfect chance to have your face close enough to his that a kiss could easily happen. If he doesn’t offer you his jacket, or he’s not wearing one, continue to rub your arms up and down and move closer to him.

Of course, there’s always just taking the initiative and kissing him. Some guys just won’t do it the first time until they’re 100 percent positive that you’re not going to shoot him down. The only way that they’re going to be positive is if you kiss them. So, you’re just going to have to take the bull by the horn and do it. In that way, you’ll both know what that kiss may mean.

Thanx for reading and have a lovely day with hugs and kisses;)

Dick Scott

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Sometimes A Little White Lie Is Best

I hope you are feeling well this wednesday, here in Sweden we have a temperature that remains of spring but the winter has not really begun yet. It could be nice with some snow in the christmas month december, white as the white lies todays article is about:) First and foremost im not fond of lies but as a friend of mine said; its not a lie its a modification of the truth and the truth can have many faces. Regarding when your spouse ask for your advice about choosing clothes i think most women are pretty sure of what to wear but surely will be happy for a compliment. Read on and choose your words carefully when giving advice.

To Your Success in Love and Life

Dick Scott

Author, Poet, Musician, Reiki Master, Digital entrepreneur

You know those little moments in time where a guy’s girlfriend or wife is modeling new jeans and she turns to him and says, “Do these make my butt look fat?” Most guys in this situation tend to look very similar to a deer caught in the headlights when you see the expression on their faces. They know that no matter what they say it’s not going to be the right answer unless they can answer in the negative with a convincing tone. These are times when you really need to think quickly and seriously before delivering your answer. This can be true of women with sensitive male partners as well.

Now, before you answer questions such as these, you need to evaluate your situation well ahead of time in anticipation of these questions that are potential land mines for your relationship. Decide just how much honesty your partner can handle. This is the first question that you must answer especially when it becomes clear that you’ll have to face those questions in the future.

Something to remember is that in many situations, telling a little white lie is the best and safest policy. However, you must assess each situation individually before delivering your answer. Sometimes you simply must tell a version of the truth. For instance, if your lady is trying to go out of the house in an outfit that would do justice to the hooker downtown on the street corner, you simply can’t let her go out and embarrass herself that way. Be kind when you present other clothing choices to her and tell her something along the lines of how much you adore seeing her in the outfit that YOU picked out. Nothing should get you further than flattery.

At other times, you may just be forced to tell something that’s not quite true in order to avoid hurting your beloved’s feelings, or putting yourself in the doghouse. Under the circumstances, it’s better to tell her that no, those jeans don’t make her butt look big, or tell him that his hair doesn’t look silly all spiked up and gelled like that. Now, when you go out, if there are some side glances or not so discreet giggles, simply say that you have no idea what they could be staring at because you find your partner absolutely adorable. THERE’S your little white lie.

Simply put, the basic rule about telling little white lies is this: As long as your partner isn’t going to be seen in public in a way that will get them ridiculed and made fun of to a huge degree, let it go. If your partner is happy about something regarding their looks, as long as it won’t be permanent and won’t be TOTALLY ridiculous, agree that it looks nice. These are the types of little white lies that don’t hurt anyone and usually won’t get you busted. Simply agree with your partner and hope that the phase passes.

Thanx for reading and make this day one of your best;)

Dick Scott

Author, Poet, Musician, Reiki Master, Digital entrepreneur