Will My Ex Be Back:The Art of Seduction

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How to Heighten Your Senses

Many people have never allowed themselves to be sensual.  But, sensual people tend to be good lovers because they use their senses to heighten their awareness and their partner’s pleasure. 

If you are not comfortable with seduction through sensuality, consider these tips:

• Awaken your senses by reveling in taste, smell, sight, touch and sound in all situations – not just romantic ones.  Try experimenting with new food spices and flavors.  Burn scented candles at work.  Introduce new colors in your wardrobe, especially in accessories.

• Pay attention to your surroundings.  Don’t miss the first buds or spring or the first leaves of autumn.  Tak in the beauty of ice covered branches.  Don’t be so busy rushing past to quickly to miss these experiences. 

• Feel when you touch.  When you shake hands with someone, take some time to really experience what it feels like.  Run your hands across fabrics, the petals of flowers, and other everyday items to increase the sense of touch.  When you do this, you will be able to concentrate on the touch of your lovers skin which enhances your sexuality.

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When you do these simple exercises, you will feel more sensouous.  This will also enliven your seductive skills.

How to Flirt With Your Partner

Flirting is practiced more by people who aren’t in relationship than those who are in them.  But this is a shame because committed lovers can gain much from playing this traditional love game.

Some examples of flirting include smiles, direct eye contact and double entendres. 

Flirting is not just about sex.  It is also about feeling good about yourself and the other person.  You let the other person know that he or she is attractive and desirable when you flirt.  Flirting doesn’t have to lead to sex, it’s just a good way to connect.

When people are involved with and committed to each other, they often stop flirting out of a fear of rejection.  They think they don’t need to do it anymore.  If you recognize these resistances in yourself, you should try to overcome them.

You can flirt in romantic settings such as a walk on the beach at sunset.  You can also flirt when there is no opportunity for sex.  This is a way to connect in “ordinary” situations such as standing in line at the movies or on the way out the door to work.

Flirting can include meaningful eye contact, touching, suggestive body language, asking sexy question or talking in whispers or coy teasing remarks and double meanings. 

Don’t be shy about flirting in front of other people.  Often, your friends will admire and envy you for the quality of your relationship.

Article 5 in this series on "The Art of Seduction" will discuss "A Seductive Feast".
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