Why You Must Control Your Jealousy if You Want to Get Your Ex Back

I think we all have felt a little jealousy sometimes and that it show our fear for loosing our love. But when jealousy gets out of hand and take over our logical thinking its a problem  and can ruin our relationship. So i hope reading todays article Why You Must Control Your Jealousy if You Want to Get Your Ex Back will be helpful.

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Jealousy can be a huge problems for relationships. The green-eyed monster is especially problematic when we live in a world that includes Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, text messaging, instant messaging, email and so many other ways for people to communicate with each other – including members of the opposite sex.

More and more jobs expect professional employees to have ready access to information at all hours of the day and night and many people must go back into the office after hours on occasion, or never seem to leave the office on other occasions. It leaves the doors wide open for jealous spouses and lovers to leap to the wrong conclusions quite often.

Some Jealousy Can be Good for the Relationship

While your significant other is probably glad to know you care enough for the green-eyed monster to rear its ugly head on occasion, it’s important to avoid making scenes, jumping to conclusions, and levy accusations and allegations without proof. The key is to find balance. You want your partner to know you care, but avoid going overboard with displays of jealousy lest they alarm your partner and cause doubts about the relationship. Trust, after all, is also important. When jealousy is too “over the top” it leaves your partner feeling as though you lack trust.

Reigning in the Green-Eyed Monster

The key is to reign in your jealousy before it becomes problematic. Consider these actions to get your jealousy under control.

* Breathe deeply. Whenever your jealous thoughts are about to spiral out of control, take a moment to breathe in and out slowly and deeply. Focus all your attention on breathing for the next several breaths. This not only helps you calm your raging thoughts but also provides important seconds for clearer thinking to kick in.

* Speak calmly. This is not the time to incite violence or make threatening statements. Let your partner know you’re uncomfortable and explain why in a reasonable tone. Most partners will show respect for your feelings, even if your partner believes they are unfounded, and attempt to get out of the situation if it’s possible.

* Be proactive. When you feel the ugly head of jealousy making an appearance, start looking for thoughts and feelings that will cancel it out. The more active role you take in eliminating jealousy from becoming a problem for your relationship, the less likely it is to become one.
If jealousy has already caused big problems in your relationship, you can still get your ex back once you get your jealousy under control. Then you just need to follow these simple instructions to have your ex back in your arms in no time.

I wish you all the best in love and life! Make this day one of your best!

To Your Success

Dick Scott

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Is Sex the Real Key to Winning Your Boyfriend Back?

Im about to share some thoughts about a important subject today:  Is Sex the Real Key to Winning Your Boyfriend Back? and i must start with a quote from the last chapter that i really like: “Sex is a beautiful thing between two people who love and respect one another. Without those two things, it loses some of its poetry and potency.”  So read and enjoy his article and take care! 

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Breaking up is hard to do — especially when you’re the one who was left behind. Depending on how long the two of you were together and how deeply involved you may have been, sex might sound like the perfect solution for getting him back. Unfortunately, solutions, after a breakup, are anything BUT simple. The one answer that screams the loudest that it’s the right thing to do is, quite often, the worst thing to do. Here’s why.

Sex Now Gives him the Benefits of a Relationship Without the Strings

The strings are the ties that bind you together and right now you want as many strings attached as possible. It might seem like a good idea to remind him of what he’s missing or give him a taste of what’s yet to come. The truth of the matter is that the longer you hold out now, the better your odds are of a successful outcome. Showing him what he can’t have will make him want it more. If you give it to him outside the confines of a relationship then he has no reason to return at all. He enjoys the creature comforts without being required to meet the obligations of a boyfriend or husband.

Deny, Deny, Deny

As crazy as it sounds, it will drive him crazy with wanting you. Let him know where you stand on the issue of sex and what it’s going to take for him to get back in your good graces. Denying him the sexual release he wants places you in a position of power. It turns the tables to a certain degree. While you should never wield power such as this maliciously, it can be a powerful tool in your arsenal as you work to get your boyfriend back.

It’s Important to Make him Earn It

Physical love is an expression. It’s a gift you give to him. While “earn” may not be the best word, it is important that he deserves the gift of love you offer him. It should never be an act of desperation on your part or a last ditch effort to win him back. Instead, it should be a celebration of the love the two of you share AFTER you get back together.

Sex is a beautiful thing between two people who love and respect one another. Without those two things, it loses some of its poetry and potency. If you’re trying to get your boyfriend back, sex carries a lot more weight when denied than when offered freely.

Thanx for reading todays article and i wish you a fantastic day!

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You May Just Have To Accept A Breakup

Todays article You May Just Have To Accept A Breakup is about the hardest thing to do when you love someone; to accept a breakup. There are times when that is the last thing we want to do, especially in the beginning of the breakup before everything have settled. I think we go through different phases in a breakup just as we do in all traumatic experiences. I also think it is a natural first reaction to not let go of the one you love but we do have to consider the impact a destructive relationship will have on our overall health. Even if its not easy try to listen to what your heart tells you because there you will find the truth although it can be hard to hear the voice of our heart sometimes. Peace&love to you;) 

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The breakup of a relationship, especially one that has been serious and long term, can be devastating. It gets even worse if you never saw it coming and you weren’t the one that wanted the breakup. You may be in shock at first, then angry and heartbroken. This will lead to crying, screaming, name calling and maybe even throwing things. Most people that don’t want a relationship to end won’t take it well and will not be amenable to letting go of this partner easily.
While it’s a fact that many couples reconcile after a breakup, it also depends on the reason for that breakup as to whether or not this happens. For instance, if the breakup was because of a silly argument, once someone apologizes, the relationship will probably get right back on track. These couples will probably enjoy a lovely makeup session and their relationship will become stronger than ever. Other couples argue as a matter of course so they’re always breaking up and getting back together. This may not make any sense to other people, but it does happen and works for them. They thrive on the drama

If the relationship ended because of boredom on the part of one partner, there may be a way to reignite the spark that got them together in the first place. Make more time for each other and do fun things together. Go on a long weekend getaway that will give you time to be only with each other and reconnect. Sometimes these couples can revisit the things that once caused them to be excited to see each other and be together. Don’t let routine become an enemy of your relationship. Keep it new and fresh if you want to prevent it from dying a death of boredom.

There’s one reason for a breakup that just may mean that you have to accept it as being the end. That’s when your partner has fallen in love with someone else. This does happen even when you feel that the two of you were made for each other. It doesn’t mean that it’s going to happen to you in all of your relationships. It can mean that the two of you weren’t meant to be together forever. If your relationship was meant to be happily ever after, your partner would not have fallen for someone else. That may be hard to swallow, but it’s something that you must consider. In addition, if your partner left you for someone else, please don’t embarrass yourself by turning to drastic measures to get him back. They won’t work and you’ll only succeed in humiliating yourself and scaring other people.

Sometimes, in spite of the pain, you’ll just have to accept that your relationship is over and that your partner is now an ex. Do what you need to do in order to move on with your life. This is the only thing that will allow you to be able to find someone else; the person that you are meant to be with.

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Will My Ex Be Back: Dating A Comedian

Todays article Dating A Comedian covers a serious subject;) humor are very important because it learn us to see things in a different perspective. It also improve our communication to have a positive and happy attitude, and that also draw people towards us. So be glad if you got humor and give everyone your smile and im sure they will smile back to you.

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Many women find that men with a sense of humor are amazingly fun today. They also find this to be very sexy because laughter definitely makes you feel good. It’s true that a good sense of humor is very desirable in someone that you’re in a relationship with. Otherwise, it can be rather morose situation. That’s the positive part of being with someone that likes to make jokes, pull pranks and laugh all the time.

On the other hand, if you’re with someone that feels he’s got to be the court jester 24/7, it can become an eventual problem. Most women enjoy having some heart felt conversations with their men once in a while; some more than others. Women that are with full time comedians will find it a challenge to have these types of conversations because their men will always be trying to find something funny to say. So while you’re sitting there telling this man how much he means to you and how you love him with all of your heart, he just may come out with some really insensitive comment like “So just how big is your heart?” That can be a real issue if he doesn’t ever have the ability to be serious and romantic. A sense of humor is great, but it can also be too much of a good thing if he doesn’t know how to dial it down a little.

Then, there are the men that love pulling pranks. You start to become afraid to turn your back on him because of what he may do. For instance, he may drop something on purpose knowing that you’ll bend over to pick it up. While you’re in the bent over position, you’ll suddenly feel a wooden spoon trying to find its way up your posterior. You most likely won’t find that funny, but he will doubled over with laughter at how you looked when you jumped straight up and screamed. That’s just an example of the many types of pranks that a jokester can come up with to play on you at the drop of a hat. Some of them are even more elaborate.

Laughter is definitely great medicine and is a good way to stay healthy, but it’s not so healthy when you’re pissed off at being laughed at all the time. There are certainly times in life that aren’t going to be funny. For instance, if your dog is run over by a car, you’re going to be very upset. Your comedian boyfriend may find the way the dog flew up in the air at the point of impact something to laugh about. Ok, if he does that, there’s something seriously wrong with him and you need to drop him immediately.

The thing is, unless you’re somewhat of a comedian yourself, then you probably aren’t going to have a successful relationship with someone like this. Laughter is a great thing, but there are definitely times when it’s not either appropriate or necessary. Unless your guy knows the difference, he’s probably not the one for you.

Look Before You Leap – Is it Really Wise to Dive Back Into a Relationship with Your Ex?

The idea of getting back together with your ex probably seems like the perfect solution to your present state of heart and mind. The breakup is the root of all your problems and your pain at the moment. You believe that making up will be the perfect answer. It might even solve some of your problems by relieving your pain to the point where you can think clearly. However, if you had waited that long before making up, what would those clearer thoughts have revealed about the breakup to begin with? Is getting back together with your ex really in your best interest? Consider these questions to help you decide.

Have You Grown from the Experience?

Not just the breakup. Have you grown from the relationship? How has loving your ex changed you for the better? For worse? Where do you want to go, on a personal level, from here? Is it somewhere your ex will be able to go with you? How have your dreams and plans for the future changed as a result of your relationship with your ex? Do you still have dreams you’re working to achieve? Or, have you given them all up for the sake of practicality and expedience? What have you accomplished since becoming involved with your ex? Do you feel like you’re a better person because you knew your ex?

Are Your Prepared to Put the Past Behind You?

The problems in your relationship don’t go away just because you broke up and got back together. Wouldn’t it be nice if it did work that way though! The truth is that the old baggage is waiting at the same door one of you stomped out of when the you-know-what hit the fan. If you don’t resolve the issues that tore the two of you apart to begin with, they’re going to cause problems again unless you’ve decided that you can really put them behind the two of you and move forward.

What Kinds of Changes are You Willing to Make to Make it Work?

Getting back together with your ex  require work. It’s as simple as that. You can’t share a home and lead two separate lives. You can’t go your separate ways and meet up when things are lonely or a little less hectic. You have to make time for each other and you have to do things together. More importantly, though, for the sake of saving your relationship, you both have to change in ways that bring you together rather than divide you.

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If you’re not willing to put the past behind you, make necessary changes, and aren’t sure you’ve really grown from your time together, then why on earth are you fighting like mad to save the relationship? If you have positive answers to all these questions, then you’ll need to follow a well-conceived plan of attack to get your ex to pay attention and really give you, and your relationship, a second chance.

I hope you get some helpful advice from this article. Sometimes breaking up is more about escaping from problems then solving them. When you end up lonely you may find that all the problems did not go away and you still have to face them to be able to be happy and start believe in love again.

Wish You All The Best

Dick Scott

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Having Trouble Getting Your Lover Back? Try This Instead

How to get lover back or how to get your ex back is the fundamentional question that i try to answer from different point of views in my blog. Nothing is as hearbreaking as being left alone with a burning desire and love for the one who left you. There is no easy answer and the answer is not the same for everyone depending on your circumstanses but im sure you will get some help from reading my blog and i wish you all the best in love and in life!

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Wise people say that the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. So many people, in the aftermath of an unexpected and/or unwanted breakup, find themselves falling into patterns of insanity while trying to get their exes back.

It’s quite common.

Your heart is screaming so loud that it drowns out the things your brain is trying to tell you. The one thing your heart knows for sure is that it wants to stop HURTING.

It knows that the breakup is the source of the pain and it wants to fix it. NOW! The thing is, your heart says crazy things, such as: apologize, beg, and bargain. These are the things that will do far more to harm your cause than to see it through.

Instead of repeating all the things that aren’t working, let’s try a different tactic this time around. Let’s go for different results. Here’s what you need to do instead.

Agree with Your Ex

Want to stop an argument dead in its tracks? Agree with the arguer. First of all, it’s a shocking experience. There have probably been many times in the course of your relationship together that you’ve continued an argument you’d known you were losing just because you weren’t ready to admit defeat. We’ve all done it.

Stopping the argument is one thing. It’s a grudging acceptance, but one your ex can mentally process. However, AGREEING with your ex is a new tactic that will leave your ex reeling.

More importantly, it will leave your ex thinking of you in an intrigued and perplexed way. Your ex thinks he or she already knows what’s coming next. Agreeing throws them off balance and reveals that you do, in fact, still have a few tricks up your sleeve.

Stop Trying so Hard

I’m not advocating giving up. I’m not even telling you that you shouldn’t try to get your ex back. I’m telling you stop working so HARD. You need to work SMARTER; not harder. The direct approach isn’t going to work in the days and short weeks following your breakup. You’re going to need to do your best work behind the scenes if you really want to get your ex’s attention.

Begin with what you know about your ex. How did you win his or her heart in the first place? What is it about you that your ex has claimed to love the most? Identify that. Understand it and save it for later.

Next you need to identify where the problems started. Was there a specific event, argument, or misunderstanding that began a downward spiral for your relationship? What could you do now that would tip the scales once again in your favor? Now is the time for thinking and not the time for action.

Do you need help coming up with the exact plan of action or working out the timing of putting your plan into motion? More importantly, do you have a plan for what comes next? Once you get your ex back, you need to know what it’s going to take to keep your relationship on a more even path in the future. Let me help you with that and so much more.

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Dick Scott

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