Living With Your Choices

Its late sunday evening here in Sweden and this article Living With Your Choices really tells one simple and big truth about decisions in life. Let your important decision be your own and not dependent on someone elses expectations. No one else will know whats best for you and no one else can take responsibility for your choises. Its not your relatives or your friends whos going to spend their future life with your potential mate. So follow your own path and dont rush into something that doesn´t feel right for you. 

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Dick Scott

Relationships are made up of choices even if it’s not evident from the beginning. You need to know what you want in a relationship before you go out trying to find that right man for you. If you don’t do that, you’ll find that you could end up in a relationship that you want no part of and not even realize how you got there. Pay attention to what you’re doing. That’s the only way that you’ll have a chance of being in the type of relationship you were hoping for.

Something that many people forget when they’re on the hunt for a relationship is that they’ve got to live with their choices. Therefore, if you hook up with someone that you’re not so sure about in the beginning, there’s a good chance that you’ll end up in a relationship that you’ll regret. Don’t ever let desperation be your guide when it comes to choosing someone for a potential relationship. That’s one of the biggest reasons that people get involved with someone that turns out to be completely wrong for them.

Think about it for a second. How many times did you take up with someone just because he showed a bit of interest in you and paid attention to you? This is especially true when you’re the only single girl in your group of immediate friends. It gets even worse when your mother, sister or some other relative is constantly hounding you about when you’re going to find a husband. You start to feel the pressure and, suddenly, all men start to look promising to you.

You allow yourself to start daydreaming about what it would be like to walk down the aisle during your beautiful and huge wedding. Everyone will be looking at you and gasping in awe at your beauty. Your family will be standing there teary eyed as they gaze on proudly. Then, there’s the reception and the honeymoon followed by the new house in the suburbs and maybe even a baby or two. When you put on those rose colored glasses, all sorts of men start to look attractive.

Before you give in to that pressure and the feelings those daydreams produce, think about what comes after the fancy wedding, honeymoon and new house. This man will be your husband; the man you’ll be going to bed with every night and waking up with each morning. Marriage is difficult enough even for couples that truly love each other. Imagine just how much harder it will be if you don’t really love this man you’ve married.

Think back on how much pressure you received to get married. Now, imagine just how heavy the disappointment and guilt trips will be once you announce that you’re getting divorced. You simply cannot allow yourself to be talked into or forced into a situation that you know in your heart is wrong for you.
The choices you make in life are ones that you, and only you, will have to live with. So do your best to make the ones best for you.

Will My Ex Be Back: Beautiful And Alone

Todays article Beautiful And Alone may give you the courage to date and meet the women or man of your dreams. If people are looking good it doesnt mean that they are perfect or lucky. Take a chanse and make contact because i think it is a lot of beautiful and alone people out there who are longing for someone to love.

Have a great day!

Dick Scott

Many times you may remember seeing absolutely gorgeous women sitting alone in a bar. You may have known physically flawless women that rarely had a date on the weekends. While it may not make sense, it’s definitely true that many beautiful women spend a large portion of their lives alone. Once you dig into this phenomena a bit, though, you’ll start to see why it happens more than people think.

For one thing, and this is very common, lots of men are intimidated by women that are just incredibly stunning. This intimidation leads them to believe that these women would never give them a second glance. They don’t want to be shot down so they end up not ever approaching the women of their dreams. Instead, they just keep watching from afar and fantasizing about what it would be like to date them.

Something else about beautiful women is that some of them are assumed to be very self-centered and, therefore, will only date certain types of men. They don’t want to be seen with the ordinary guys. In other words, if a man doesn’t have lots of money and a hot car, they shouldn’t even approach women like this. They will definitely be shot down. Now, this isn’t to say that ALL beautiful women are self-centered. There are ordinary looking women that can be just as self-centered, although one might wonder why they feel they deserve to be.
The point is, even if you feel that you’re a less than ordinary man, you should always give the beautiful women a chance. Very often, a gorgeous woman would love to be approached by an intelligent man with a great sense of humor even if he doesn’t look like the stereotypical movie star. Many times, as long as that man is clean, neat and smells nice, a beautiful woman would be more than pleased to spend time with him.

So, if that man sounds a bit like you, why are you not approaching that beautiful woman sitting all alone at the bar nursing a drink and looking ever so lonely? Unless you look like the Elephant Man and have the personality of a cave man, she just may welcome your company. But that’s not something you’ll ever know unless you try it. Sure, there’s a chance that she may not be interested and blow you off, but there’s at least a fifty percent chance that she’ll smile at you and accept a drink from you.

Now, if she does turn out to be one of those women that has ice water pumping through her veins and isn’t interested unless you’re a millionaire driving a Maserati, at least you’ll understand why she’s sitting in a bar drinking alone. However, if you get your feet wet, so to speak, the next time you might not be so nervous about approaching a great looking woman. After all, once you’ve been shot down, you’ll know how it feels and will know that it can’t kill you.
Besides, if nothing else, you may be starting the relationship of your dreams. If not, you might at least make a really wonderful friend.

Will My Ex Be Back:Pattern Dating

Todays article Pattern Dating is a subject that can be transferred to any part of our life. We always have a tendence to follow old patterns; good or bad because thats how our mind works. It is not so easy to change your mind even if its bad to follow a pattern thats destructive in the long run. We shure have more power in our mind then we usually think, its just that it is in our subconsciousness most of our actions are borned. Often we ask our selves why do I fall into the same pit all the time even if its obvious to me on a consciousness level. Often its an underlaying old habit that controls us. One of the hardest things to do is actually to change our mind and to control our own mind but its the first step to master our life and our relations.

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Some women seem to be drawn to all the wrong men when it comes to dating and relationships. They can’t seem to help themselves, and this is pretty sad because until they break their negative patterns in dating, they’ll never have a truly successful relationship. Instead, they’ll continue to date one wrong man after another.

So what do you do about that if you happen to fall into this category? First of all, you must identify the types of guys that you’ve been falling victim to and figure out why they’re all so wrong for you. For instance, if you’re drawn to the bad boy type, it may be due to a part of you that loves to rebel against things. You may also subconsciously want to be mistreated in some way. There may also be a part of you that wants to “help” or “change” these guys into loving and respectful men. While that’s very sweet of you, there’s something that you should be aware of. That something is that these guys are never going to change and see things your way. They like being the way they are and will not change for anyone. Therefore, the person that needs to change is you.

If you find the negative pattern of dating that you seem to keep following, you can start changing it into something useful and a way to find happiness. Another negative dating pattern that many women cave into is that of using sex to find their Prince Charming. These women don’t just kiss on a first date; they have sex on a first date. In fact, for a lot of them, they don’t even need to be on a date. They just allow themselves to be picked up at bars and taken to the back seats of cars or alleys. For some reason, they seem to feel that by having sex with a guy, any guy, that they’ll find true love. Sadly, but not unsurprisingly, this really doesn’t happen. What does tend to happen are unwanted pregnancies and STDs.

To start breaking through your negative dating pattern, no matter what it is, then the first thing you need to do is figure out why the kind of guy you’re attracted to always turn out to be bad news for you. When you’re able to get that part settled in your head, then you can set about figuring out the type of men that will be good for you. Look closely at what you need from a partner long term. Then start trying to meet men that fit the criteria.

Even if you have to force yourself, stay away from those former guys that have always been so bad for you. Understand that if you’re ever going to be happy, you must extricate yourself from the negative dating patterns that you’ve enmeshed yourself in, no matter what they may be. It’s not impossible to get it all worked out. If you can’t do it on your own, then you may want to get some professional help with it in the form of a counselor.

Have a nice weekend wherever you are because your worth it!

Dick Scott

Is Sex the Real Key to Winning Your Boyfriend Back?

Im about to share some thoughts about a important subject today:  Is Sex the Real Key to Winning Your Boyfriend Back? and i must start with a quote from the last chapter that i really like: “Sex is a beautiful thing between two people who love and respect one another. Without those two things, it loses some of its poetry and potency.”  So read and enjoy his article and take care! 

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Breaking up is hard to do — especially when you’re the one who was left behind. Depending on how long the two of you were together and how deeply involved you may have been, sex might sound like the perfect solution for getting him back. Unfortunately, solutions, after a breakup, are anything BUT simple. The one answer that screams the loudest that it’s the right thing to do is, quite often, the worst thing to do. Here’s why.

Sex Now Gives him the Benefits of a Relationship Without the Strings

The strings are the ties that bind you together and right now you want as many strings attached as possible. It might seem like a good idea to remind him of what he’s missing or give him a taste of what’s yet to come. The truth of the matter is that the longer you hold out now, the better your odds are of a successful outcome. Showing him what he can’t have will make him want it more. If you give it to him outside the confines of a relationship then he has no reason to return at all. He enjoys the creature comforts without being required to meet the obligations of a boyfriend or husband.

Deny, Deny, Deny

As crazy as it sounds, it will drive him crazy with wanting you. Let him know where you stand on the issue of sex and what it’s going to take for him to get back in your good graces. Denying him the sexual release he wants places you in a position of power. It turns the tables to a certain degree. While you should never wield power such as this maliciously, it can be a powerful tool in your arsenal as you work to get your boyfriend back.

It’s Important to Make him Earn It

Physical love is an expression. It’s a gift you give to him. While “earn” may not be the best word, it is important that he deserves the gift of love you offer him. It should never be an act of desperation on your part or a last ditch effort to win him back. Instead, it should be a celebration of the love the two of you share AFTER you get back together.

Sex is a beautiful thing between two people who love and respect one another. Without those two things, it loses some of its poetry and potency. If you’re trying to get your boyfriend back, sex carries a lot more weight when denied than when offered freely.

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Look Before You Leap – Is it Really Wise to Dive Back Into a Relationship with Your Ex?

The idea of getting back together with your ex probably seems like the perfect solution to your present state of heart and mind. The breakup is the root of all your problems and your pain at the moment. You believe that making up will be the perfect answer. It might even solve some of your problems by relieving your pain to the point where you can think clearly. However, if you had waited that long before making up, what would those clearer thoughts have revealed about the breakup to begin with? Is getting back together with your ex really in your best interest? Consider these questions to help you decide.

Have You Grown from the Experience?

Not just the breakup. Have you grown from the relationship? How has loving your ex changed you for the better? For worse? Where do you want to go, on a personal level, from here? Is it somewhere your ex will be able to go with you? How have your dreams and plans for the future changed as a result of your relationship with your ex? Do you still have dreams you’re working to achieve? Or, have you given them all up for the sake of practicality and expedience? What have you accomplished since becoming involved with your ex? Do you feel like you’re a better person because you knew your ex?

Are Your Prepared to Put the Past Behind You?

The problems in your relationship don’t go away just because you broke up and got back together. Wouldn’t it be nice if it did work that way though! The truth is that the old baggage is waiting at the same door one of you stomped out of when the you-know-what hit the fan. If you don’t resolve the issues that tore the two of you apart to begin with, they’re going to cause problems again unless you’ve decided that you can really put them behind the two of you and move forward.

What Kinds of Changes are You Willing to Make to Make it Work?

Getting back together with your ex  require work. It’s as simple as that. You can’t share a home and lead two separate lives. You can’t go your separate ways and meet up when things are lonely or a little less hectic. You have to make time for each other and you have to do things together. More importantly, though, for the sake of saving your relationship, you both have to change in ways that bring you together rather than divide you.

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If you’re not willing to put the past behind you, make necessary changes, and aren’t sure you’ve really grown from your time together, then why on earth are you fighting like mad to save the relationship? If you have positive answers to all these questions, then you’ll need to follow a well-conceived plan of attack to get your ex to pay attention and really give you, and your relationship, a second chance.

I hope you get some helpful advice from this article. Sometimes breaking up is more about escaping from problems then solving them. When you end up lonely you may find that all the problems did not go away and you still have to face them to be able to be happy and start believe in love again.

Wish You All The Best

Dick Scott

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