Will My Ex Be Back: Why do Men Cheat?

Hi to you all this sunday. Todays article Why do Men Cheat? could perhaps also be the other way around because cheating is unfortunately not only done by men. But this article focus on that side of the problem and how women can deal with it in the best way possible. I think it is one of the hardest thing to forgive and forget when you love someone and it sure hurts really bad. I also think that true love is strong enough to conquer and survive any challenge if we stand side by side when there are difficulties within our relationship.

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It’s an ages-old question. In the dawn of man, it was simple. It was a biological imperative. That’s why many religions in those times condoned and even encouraged men to have multiple wives, concubines, and consort. It was to assure survival of the species. We’re talking about a time where one in three children died before the age of one. Science and education have brought about many advances. However, women are still sometimes held hostage by biological clocks in the same way men are sometimes tempted to cheat — even when they are happy with their wives.

What does that mean for you?

It means you should take comfort in these next words. It’s not YOUR fault. No matter what preachers on television, mass media, or people selling gym memberships will try to tell you. He didn’t cheat because you’re not thin enough, beautiful enough, good enough in bed, or even because you don’t keep the house clean enough. Will changing these things make him happy? It’s quite likely that if you become the sexiest woman in the neighborhood and suddenly start cleaning house like Donna Reed he will be pleased with the results. However, doing all these things will not prevent him from cheating.

Think about it. Some of the most beautiful women in the world including former Bond girl Halle Berry, Sandra Bullock, Elin Nordegren, and Reese Witherspoon have all been cheated on by men who love them. It’s not always a matter of not being beautiful enough, rich enough, or anything else.

Does This Men all Men Should Get a Free Pass for Cheating?

Absolutely not! The thing about cheating is that it undermines the trust in the relationship at the most basic level. It’s not acceptable in today’s society where marriages are binding emotional contracts. Cheating, breaks that contract and leaves the wife doubting her beauty, her appeal, and her worthiness. It’s an act that is destructive on far too many levels to excuse.

That doesn’t mean, however, that cheating must be the end of the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. While celebrity couples that go through it often do not recover (largely due to the intense media scrutiny of the most intimate and painful details of their lives), it doesn’t mean that your relationship can’t survive if you’re both willing to work to make it happen.

The truth is that men cheat for all kinds of reasons. Very few of them have anything to do with the way the other woman looks. It’s more about how she acts and how she makes him FEEL. Now is the perfect opportunity to make the time to learn what you can do to make him feel the same way the other woman does.

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Article 6 and Conclusion In The Series of Articles on How To Go On A Cheap Date

Go Camping

If staying in your own home for a vacation doesn’t seem like such an escape, but you’ve still got a limited budget for travel, consider going camping. 

You can often borrow the tents and other necessary camping equipment from friends and family.  The site fee for most camping spots is negligible.  Your food costs are limited to hot dogs and marshmallows if you’re cheap.  So, camping can definitely be done inexpensively.

When you go, you will have the fun of pitching the tent (that can provide a lifetime of memories if you’re inexperienced).  Then, you can make a campfire and roast weenies and later marshmallows.  Cuddle up under a blanket and watch the stars come out as you talk about your hopes and dreams for the future.

Later, you can zip your sleeping bags together for a cozy night.

If you have a couple of days for camping, you can spend the daytime hiking, fishing, or participating in other outdoor activities that are not available closer to home.

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Relive Your First Date

Perhaps the most romantic date idea I have for you is to relive your first date.  Some first dates are over the top, but most of the time, you don’t invest a lot of money in someone you have just met.  So, reliving your first date may not be all that expensive.

If you went to a restaurant, go back.  If the man brought the woman flowers, get the same kind and give them to her again.  Duplicate the event to the greatest extent possible.

Reliving your first date will bring back a wealth of memories that you can talk about.  You will also be able to talk about how far you have come and where you are going. 

If you are planning to propose to your significant other, one of the most romantic things you can do is replicate your first date, and then at the end, instead of giving her a chaste goodnight kiss, get down on one knee and have a ring handy.

Article 2Will My Ex Be Back:In the Series of "The Nuts and Bolts Of Good Communication"

There are times when you are not clear about what your partner wants. In these cases, you can not reflect back on what he or she has said. But, you can still use reflective listening techniques.

There are four main sentence structures for when you don't know what your partner is saying.

The first one is “Are you saying that...” This makes it clear that you don't understand and you need clarification. Make sure this is done with the right tone. If it comes across as accusatory, your partner may shut down rather than give you the information you need.

The next one is “Do you mean that...” This is very similar but instead of looking at what the person is saying, you are digging deeper into their actual aims.

Will My Ex Be Back

Then, you can dig deeper into your partner's words by repeating back the last few words he or she spoke to you. For instance, if your partner says “I feel angry when you do not clean up the mess you made,” you can say “When I don't clean up the mess I made?” By phrasing it as a question, you elicit further communication.

Finally, you can use the first three sentence structures in combination. Here's an example: “I understand that you are feeling ___. But are you also saying ___? So, you might say “I understand that you are feeling overwhelmed. But are you also feeling under appreciated?

Here's the point: when you use reflective listening, your partner feels that he or she has been heard, that their message has been understood, and that you value them. They will realize that you are showing them respect and that you are making a good faith effort in the relationship. Generally, they will leave the conversation feeling positive both toward you and toward the conversation itself. This is true even if you disagree about the issue.

The conversation moves forward as well. Your partner is encouraged to continue the dialogue because you haven't challenged them on core principles.

Finally, you have avoided power struggles. These are the unproductive shouting matches that make both sides feel that they have to stake out their positions and are loathe to move because that would be “giving in.” Power struggles are often marked by shouting matches. The parties use unproductive aggressive words and phrases such as “Yes I did” and “No I didn't.” The power struggle quickly becomes about who was right and who was wrong rather than focusing on a solution to a problem. The goal becomes to win the argument not to come to a resolution on the issue.

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