Will My Ex Be Back:Love Yourself First

I think todays article Love Yourself First is about one of the most important issues that has to do with relationships. It is obvious if you think about it but easy to overlook when we give our attention fully to another person. There is nothing bad about loving ourselves as some may think. It is through the love to yourself you can love another person. Otherwise it will be a relationship built on dependence. I wish you a happy lovely and forfilled day because you are worth it!!

Dick Scott

Of all the relationships that you’ll ever have throughout your life, the most important one is the relationship that you have with yourself. The reason for this is because how you feel about yourself is going to reflect in every other relationship you ever become involved in. If you have bad feelings about yourself, the chances are good that you’re going to have a hard time being in a loving relationship. Those negative feelings will show themselves in the way you conduct yourself with the person you’re supposed to be in love with. However, if you find it impossible to love yourself, how are you going to be able to love anyone else?

If you’re having some issues with loving yourself, there are some ways that you can push that along. First of all, learn the definition of self-respect. When you respect yourself, you’ll make sure that others adhere to the boundaries that you’ve set for yourself. As long as you allow everyone to cross those boundaries, your life is invaded and you’re no long able to have any self-respect because people are always going to be taking advantage of you. A lot of people realize it when they’re being taken advantage of and it produces feelings of hurtfulness and humiliation. Just don’t let that happen to you.

Realize that you’re a valuable and worthwhile human being. When you let yourself be berated and trod upon by others, you develop a sense of being worthless. Never let anyone tell you that you’re stupid, dumb or unimportant. If you allow this from people, soon enough you’ll start to believe it yourself. It nibbles away at your self-confidence and self-esteemuntil you actually believe that you don’t deserve anyone or anything good in your life. You end up settling for those guys that expect you to be their gravy train along with their maid. Don’t do that to yourself.

So many women in abusive relationships are there because they allowed others to make them believe that they belonged in those types of relationships. They’ve been taught through the years that they deserve to be hit and yelled at by the man that’s supposed to love them above all overs. In spite of what you may believe, that’s not love. The man that will treat his wife or girlfriend that way does not love her. Nor does he respect her. Don’t let yourself be sucked into this sick and twisted type of situation.

If you find that you have these feelings of worthlessness, you must get some help in fixing that immediately. Make no mistake; if you feel this way about yourself, you are damaged or broken in some way and need to be repaired. The person or persons responsible for treating you so badly that you do view yourself this way needs more help than you do. They need to learn the damage they’ve caused and they need to learn to feel shame for having done that. Then they can get to work on why they felt the need to behave that way.
Do whatever you must to love yourself. It’s the only way you’ll ever have a happy and successful relationship with anyone else.

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Where To Spend The Holidays

Where To Spend The Holidays could be a question without an easy answer especially for those with grandparents that always expect children and grandchildren to show up on christmas. I know many nowadays that are taking a trip to a sunny beach over the christmas holiday season because they want to skip the stress and demands. Unfortunately not everyone has the ability go travel and spend a lot of money either. In my opinion is the most important thing on holidays to spend time together with family and friends but also to give yourself some time for whatever you desire to do. If its home or abroad is not essential but to relax from running in the rat race is great. I hope you get some inspiration about holidays from todays article!

Best Wishes

Dick Scott

A long standing argument between many couples is the one that comes up every time there’s a special holiday, such as Thanksgiving or Christmas. This is the debate about where the couple will be spending the holidays. It can get to be a pretty serious holiday spoiler if both partners have living relatives that they’re close to. It doesn’t have to be a nightmare every year, though.

For couples with their parents living in the same city or town, it’s not THAT big of an issue. You simply split up your day or, in the case of Christmas, two days. Christmas Eve can be spent at the home of one set of parents and Christmas Day can be spent at the other set’s home. The next year you can reverse it. Another way to handle this is to split up the day by spending the morning at one house and the evening at the other house. When you work things out with everyone ahead of time, this is usually a great way to handle it.

If you’ve got one set of parents living in one location and the other set living in another one, that can be a little more difficult. In this event, you’ll need to probably spend Thanksgiving in one place and Christmas with the other parents. Then you can reverse things the next year.

Of course, one way to deal with this issue may be to simply host the holidays at YOUR home. In that way, everyone can be happy because all of you will be together in the same place for the holidays. Now, there can be a few things that will throw a monkey wrench into things. Maybe the in-laws don’t get along with each other or with you. One of the parents may not be healthy enough to travel and that can be a problem. That would mean that you and your partner would have to travel to them at least once during the year.

The main thing is that you and your partner can work out something that will amenable to everyone. People don’t always work together, though. For instance, your partner’s mother may not like you and will refuse to give in gracefully as to sharing the holidays. There’s not a lot you can do in that situation other than let your partner handle her. Hopefully, he’ll have both of your best interests at heart when he does so.

There may be instances where you and your partner will need to spend the holidays apart in order to spend them with parents and other family members. It’s not the ideal situation since couples should be able to spend the holidays together whether their parents are a part of the celebration or not. The thing to remember is that this is something that everyone must cooperate on or people end up being upset and angry. Sadly, sharing and cooperation are things that even parents need to be taught. If this is part of your situation, don’t hesitate to explain the word “fairness.” It can be your Christmas gift to them.

this stuff works!…maybe too well?

NEW! Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

If you’ll take my hand, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…