Good Morning to all; here in Sweden we have a lovely morning with sunshine but unfortunately the winter is getting closer. Todays article Trying to Get Your Ex Back – Is This Standing in Your Way? is about having the courage to dont push harder and harder in getting your ex back. It is for sure counterproductive trying to hard no matter what it feels like. Its natural to feel that its the right thing to do, to make what ever it takes to get your ex back. But that feelings are grounded in the heartbreaking situation you are in and the solution starts with backing off and get a clear view of your relationship and the reason for the breakup and also if you are really shure that it will be better then it was before if you get your ex back. Infact it can be worse if you only make up to end your heartbreaking suffering. But dont get me wrong; if you have had a terrific relationship and both of you really want to get back together you should get it a second chance. So get yourself some time to calm down enough to feel what your heart really wants and listen to your heart. At the end of this article i have put a link to a trustful resource regarding to make up or break up that will help you!
Yours Sincerely
Dick Scott Admin
It’s not easy to be on the outside looking in at what used to be your path to happily ever after. Being unceremoniously dumped without anyone asking your permission, not only hurts, but it also makes your entire world feel as though it’s spiraling out of control. Your solution to the problem is simple.
You have decided to get your ex back. You’ve thrown all your heart, soul, and energy into the coffers and, yet, you’re still not seeing a satisfactory return on your investment. If anything, the cold shoulder your ex has been giving you just keeps getting shoulder. What’s going wrong in your efforts to win your ex back? Perhaps, it’s one of these common, but fixable, hiccups.
You’re Trying Too Hard
You want results and you feel that this is worth an all-out effort on your part. Unfortunately, what your ex needs right now is a little bit of emotional distance from the situation. Sometimes absence really is all it takes to make the heart grow fonder. You just have to give the absence the opportunity to happen. Step back. Scale things down completely and let your ex get a taste of what life is really like without you in it.
Making all the Wrong Moves
At least, that’s what it feels like is going on. Every move you make feels like it’s pushing your ex further and further away. The thing is, it’s not the moves you’re making that are the problems. It’s the fact that you’re making them. Stand down. Give your ex a chance to breathe a little. Use this time wisely to come up with a plan of action designed to get your ex’s attention in a really positive way when the timing is right.
Moving a Little Too Fast
This is quite common. Your heart is telling you to get in there and “Nip it in the bud!” You don’t want to hear any more of this breakup talk. You want to end it all, right now and get on to the infinitely more enjoyable making up talk. There’s a reason Barney didn’t get a loaded gun and that he was only given ONE bullet. Your heart means well but it doesn’t always steer you in the right direction.
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